I drink a lot of hot beverages. I almost always have a cup of hot water during my coaching appointments. If I sit to have a conversation with a friend or family member, I almost always grab a cup of hot water or coffee. If I’m feeling down, …
“Be where your feet are.” How to show respect to people and task.
Our world is constantly moving and changing. As a result, it can be challenging to stay present and focused. With our smartphones constantly buzzing, our second-guessing past events, and a never-ending list of tasks to complete, it’s easy to get caught up in the past or the future, …
How the fable of the tortoise and the hare can work to our advantage.
It’s the classic example of the tortoise and the hare. Consistency versus intensity. Which wins the race? In the fable, consistency won. The legend can also be a theme in the race for personal growth and self-improvement. In my mind, there is a clear winner. Consistency, hands down. …
Visualization isn’t just about seeing yourself at the top of the podium.
Visualization is a powerful technique that can help individuals improve their performance in various areas. Visualization may include creating a mental image or scenario of what it takes to attain a desired outcome like: Training in such a way to win a sporting competition. Preparing appropriately for a …
Master Your Day: The Power of Establishing Effective Routines
Routines are among the most powerful tools for increasing productivity, reducing stress, and improving overall well-being. They can help structure our daily lives, provide stability and security, and ensure that we take care of ourselves consistently and intentionally. Whether it’s a morning routine, exercise routine, or sleep routine, …
Sometimes it’s okay to cut and run. Forget about the sunk costs.
Most of us have experienced the feeling of holding onto something that’s not serving us anymore. Whether it’s a job that’s sucking the life out of us, a relationship that’s run its course, or a project that’s just not taking off, it can be hard to let go …
Do the thing you don’t want to do. Future you is going to appreciate it.
I just got back from an afternoon walk with my dog. We usually take our walks early in the morning. Sometimes we even greet the sunrise while out and about. Unfortunately, today was not one of those days. Instead, Rosie and I sat on the couch while I …
“That went well.” What’s the benefit of appreciating the little things?
Life can be hectic and fast-paced, with many demands and distractions that can take our focus away from the present moment. We often focus on significant events or accomplishments, such as promotions, vacations, or milestones, and we must remember to appreciate the simple pleasures right before us. So …
Do I belong in the room?
I recently attended the Seattle Counselors Association (SCA) meeting. This was the first time I’d attended and, frankly, I was a little nervous about putting myself out there. I’d heard from a colleague that SCA was an amazing group of people, all with a bunch of letters after …
Appreciation
I recently had the opportunity to speak about ADHD in the workplace during the monthly Lunch and Learn event at Talking Rain. When I arrived, the following quote was on-screen to welcome employees: “Appreciation is a wonderful thing: It makes what is excellent in others belong to you …