Harriet Lerner: The Nine Ingredients of a Good Apology

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“If only our passion to understand others were as great as our passion to be understood.  Were this so, all our apologies would be truly meaningful and healing.” — Harriet Lerner Most of us have been spending a great deal of time together. We are communicating differently than …

How can boundaries keep you safe and in control this holiday season?

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Ask nearly anyone that knows me well, and they will tell you that I am big on boundaries. They come up so frequently with my clients that one client, noting a lengthy pause, said: “You’re going to ask me about the B-word, aren’t you?” I love it when my clients …

Save Hours a Week With a Marketing Calendar by CoSchedule

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Social Media can be frustrating and time-consuming! But, from what the experts say, if you aren’t on social media, you are nearly invisible. But, social media options change at lightning speed, and frankly, I can’t keep up, but CoSchedule can.  It never ceases to amaze me how quickly …

There is power in asking yourself: “What can I possibly be missing?”

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We all make assumptions. We think we know what’s going on, but we don’t know the whole picture most of the time.  Here are some examples of recent client scenarios where asking “What can I possibly be missing?” may have come in handy. Client #1: Wanting to make …

Accountability is powerful and comes in many forms. What are you looking for to achieve growth?

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When I start a new coaching engagement, I always ask clients what they want in a coaching partnership. Nearly every time, they are looking for tools, skills, and, most importantly, accountability. Accountability comes in many forms. However, the types of accountability we discuss largely fall into four categories: Punitive, …

Did you make a major mistake? If so, acknowledge it, then make it right.

Cindy Jobs Health and Well-Being

Have you ever done something you were super excited about, then had it blow up in your face? I’m betting you have. But, if not, let me share my story so you can get a feel for it. We have introduced a new person as part of my …

How discounting “Remember Tomorrow” Gets in the Way of Your Progress

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I like to do some kind of exercise each day.  Sometimes it’s the treadmill. Sometimes it’s an outdoor adventure.  Sometimes it’s a bit of weight training.  It’s not much, but it’s something and I always feel better after I’ve done it.  The balance of the day is a …