The hazards of getting caught in the expectations and comparisons trap.

Cindy JobsADHD In The Workplace, Health and Well-Being, Productivity

“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree,          it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” Although this quote is frequently attributed to Albert Einstein, there is no evidence of him saying it. In a world …


What’s the downside of comparing what you see in others to your own experience?

Cindy JobsADHD In The Workplace, Health and Well-Being

Are you envious of someone else’s home? Are you jealous of someone else’s natural talents? Do you believe others’ “overnight success” is a matter of luck? What you see may not always be the truth. It may not be a reality, merely your perspective and it may be …

Why do we want to be like someone else?

Cindy JobsHealth and Well-Being, Uncategorized

“Never compare your insides to everyone else’s outsides.” ― Anne Lamott Have you ever caught yourself thinking . . . “I want to be like Susie, she’s so organized.” “I want to be like Kathy, she has great hair.” “I want to be like Janet, she is an …