“Now I get it!” Can you hear my coach’s heart singing?

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Every once in a while, I find myself wanting to cry with joy as I’m recapping a client appointment. Today was one of those days. A client came to me wanting to get his work life in order. What he didn’t realize at the time was that once …

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I read a lot of books about ADHD. Check out my top 10 here.

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Everyone’s ADHD manifests differently.  The understanding of ADHD as a whole is important, as are different perspectives on how to best manage ADHD traits that may get in the way. Here are my current Top 10 (in no particular order) books and a short review of each: ADHD …

“It happens every time!” Until it doesn’t. Prediction Error is at play.

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Our brains are constantly constructing anticipated outcomes based on thousands and thousands of past experiences. Every time we have an experience, the brain revisits former experiences, layers on data from the new experience, and creates a more substantial model for future experiences. But what happens when the data …

You may think you know why they did it, but you probably don’t.

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Attribution: The interpretive process by which people make judgments about the causes of their own behavior and the behavior of others. (Merriam-Webster) Whether we are aware of it or not, we make attributions about our own actions or the actions of others all day long. To explain attribution, Fritz …

ADHD Brains: Are you making social mistakes but don’t know what you’re doing wrong?

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The quote “All I need to know I learned in kindergarten” is so true. Well, mostly true. We learn life skills later in life, but one of the most critical skills we need to succeed is social skills and those skills we learned during our young and formative …

Awareness. Curiosity. Compassion. Connection. Four components on the road to positive change.

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No matter how you look at it, change can be daunting. Sometimes because we don’t know where to start. Sometimes because we get started and don’t know the next step. And sometimes, we get started then beat ourselves up about not starting sooner.  No matter how you look …

The Procrastination Doom Loop: If you procrastinate, you are rewarding your brain.

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Why do we procrastinate? Procrastination, in its most basic form, is short-term mood relief.  Here’s how it goes: There’s something you don’t want to do, let’s say writing the report your boss asked for by the end of the week. You’re a little nervous about it because you …

Are you looking to increase your productivity? Take a nap. Brahms did.

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I have more than one client that has come to appointments feeling guilty because they took a nap in the middle of their workday, “completely trashing their productivity.”  These clients are entrepreneurs, work from home, and are primarily in control of their destiny. So what’s the big deal? …

Want to change your stress level? Read the book Set Boundaries, Find Peace

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I talk to my clients about boundaries and how being boundaryless is a recipe for disaster. This book reinforces so much of what I believe; I hope everyone reads or listens to the book as soon as possible.  Set Boundaries, Find Peace, beautifully written by Nedra Glover Tawwab, …

Want to mitigate some ADHD traits? You may want to try these five strategies to start with.

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Before I start a coaching partnership, we have a conversation about where they are, what they want, and what strategies they are currently using.  Through research and experience, here are the top five strategies that are professionally recognized as working, and I see the same results with my …