There is power in asking yourself: “What can I possibly be missing?”

Cindy JobsUncategorized

We all make assumptions. We think we know what’s going on, but we don’t know the whole picture most of the time.  Here are some examples of recent client scenarios where asking “What can I possibly be missing?” may have come in handy. Client #1: Wanting to make …

Accountability is powerful and comes in many forms. What are you looking for to achieve growth?

Cindy JobsUncategorized

When I start a new coaching engagement, I always ask clients what they want in a coaching partnership. Nearly every time, they are looking for tools, skills, and, most importantly, accountability. Accountability comes in many forms. However, the types of accountability we discuss largely fall into four categories: Punitive, …

Did you make a major mistake? If so, acknowledge it, then make it right.

Cindy JobsHealth and Well-Being

Have you ever done something you were super excited about, then had it blow up in your face? I’m betting you have. But, if not, let me share my story so you can get a feel for it. We have introduced a new person as part of my …

How discounting “Remember Tomorrow” Gets in the Way of Your Progress

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I like to do some kind of exercise each day.  Sometimes it’s the treadmill. Sometimes it’s an outdoor adventure.  Sometimes it’s a bit of weight training.  It’s not much, but it’s something and I always feel better after I’ve done it.  The balance of the day is a …

How your brain and body use fidgeting to increase focus.

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Is it multi-tasking or something else at work? We’ve often heard that our brains can not multi-task; moreover, they are very effective at switch-tasking. However, new research has shown that doing two things at once may actually increase productivity. ADHD expert John Ratey, M.D., outlined in his book Spark that …

Can you answer the question “What is my responsibility?”

Cindy JobsUncategorized

Effective coaching is about helping clients come to their own answers. Powerful, thought-providing questions can be the key to unlocking self-awareness. An effective coach does not “fix” the client or the issue; moreover, the coach helps the client develop skills, tools, and processes to resolve problems and accomplish …

“Popcorn hour.” How personalized metaphors can move you closer to your goals.

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“I want the popcorn hour my parents always had.” During a recent appointment, a client mentioned her parent’s “popcorn hour” as something she aspired to. “Popcorn hour” was the magical time when all the work was done for the day, and they could sit back with a bowl …

Book Review: The Disorganized Mind

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Nancy Ratey is a gift to the ADHD community. Not only is she a well-respected ADHD coach, but she also has ADHD herself and can offer an interesting perspective that others may not. You might be asking yourself: “Why would an ADHD coach suggest a book that is intended …

“Now I get it!” Can you hear my coach’s heart singing?

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Every once in a while, I find myself wanting to cry with joy as I’m recapping a client appointment. Today was one of those days. A client came to me wanting to get his work life in order. What he didn’t realize at the time was that once …

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I read a lot of books about ADHD. Check out my top 10 here.

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Everyone’s ADHD manifests differently.  The understanding of ADHD as a whole is important, as are different perspectives on how to best manage ADHD traits that may get in the way. Here are my current Top 10 (in no particular order) books and a short review of each: ADHD …